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Coping with
a child with cancer.
The child is the centre of the family. Even a small illness in a child
upsets the whole family. A child diagnosed and undergoing treatment
for cancer naturally leads to tremendous stress for the parents and
the family. In this time the child also goes through an emotional
turmoil. He obviously looks for support from his parents.
It is important to gather courage at this critical point to comfort
and reassure the child. Behave as "normal" as you can. Do not let
it appear that the child is different in any way. Do not show or seek
sympathy. Rather, take control of the situation and transmit the same
positive attitude to the child. Go for the usual stroll in the park
or to an entertainment centre. Don't let the child feel that he or
she is different.
The school and teachers form another important area. Peer group has
to be briefed by the teacher and the right type of friends have to
support the child. Acceptance by friends can be a source of enormous
strength.
It is important to maintain the nutrition of the child and also attend
to the general cleanliness. Oral hygiene should be proper and one
has to avoid infections during therapy. Regular dental care is necessary
and any febrile episode should be reported to your treating clinician.
The other siblings can also be difficult at times, as they perceive
that the child is getting more attention and they feel neglected and
can be cranky to seek attention. They have to be made aware of the
situation and should be part of the supporting team. An elder brother
or sister can be far more effective than a parent in providing a "normal"
home and play environment can.
Remember always - the childhood cancers have many success stories
in cancer treatment and many of them are curable.
There is always Hope
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